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Yard sale winners

Well, you people made me doubt my bargain-finding abilities! I actually paid $40.50 for all those goodies. So that means Holly($40.01) and Beth ($42.00) are the winners of the one month Netflix trials. If you will send me your snail mail addresses I will get those gift cards in the mail to you.

Now, in case you haven’t had enough of guessing, and/or you’d like another shot at a Netflix trial, here’s another heap of yard sale stuff. You have until Tuesday to guess this one. The closest two guesses will win a one month Netflix trial.

In this batch we have 5 shirts, one sweatshirt, two pairs of shorts, a tiny ceramic tea set in a bag, a camera case, a shawl, a pair of shoes, an action figure, a dolly bottle, a tote bag, and a yard or so of flannel fabric.

Ready, set, guess!

somebody save me…

…from the person I become when we’re expecting a houseful of people.

Second Daughter graduates from high school on Saturday, you see. To celebrate her milestone we’re having an open house on Sunday to which we’ve invited the whole family, the whole church, and a whole bunch of other very nice people.

Which would be all fine and dandy if I didn’t have a terrible case of the “company’s coming” bug.

I started at the beginning of this week in an organized sort of way, determined to do a little each day and above all not to get too nutty about all this. Problem is, every time my list starts getting whittled down, I look up and see more stuff that I never even notice.

Weeds in our quarter-acre of flowerbeds. Cobwebs in the eaves. Sun-rotted lawn swings. Fingerprinted windows. Dinged-up baseboards. Tired kitchen flooring. Bare patches in the lawn. You know, all the things that prove we have a life beyond lawn care and home decorating, and that the life we have is populated by children.

Our guests are well aware that we have ten children, of course. They’re coming to celebrate, not evaluate. And yet the part of me that wants to welcome them also longs to be able to offer them House Beautiful. OK, well…House Decent, anyway.

I’m contemplating a run to Home Depot in the morning, for mulch, a couple of stepping stones, and maybe a new lawn swing to replace the one that’s falling to bits.

It’s a sickness.

I know this all isn’t really necessary and yet I just. can’t. quit.

Help!

(ooops, gotta run…I just spotted some more weeds.)

Six daughters

Each year for the past few years on Mother’s Day, my five sisters and I have snugged together to get a picture of all 6 of us with our mom. Above is the picture we got this year, under a beautiful lilac at my sister’s house. I’m at the bottom left. After we got that picture I realized I really wanted a picture of myself with my own daughters. And so we gathered and smiled some more for this precious picture.

When our daughters came home from Ethiopia last summer, an experienced parent of older adopted children told us that TV captions help kids learn English. We began turning on TV captions hoping to help improve the girls’ understanding, but since then we have discovered other benefits. In fact, our family has gotten hooked on captions.

Not only do captions help new English speakers, they help new readers. They give kids practice at reading. I think that being able to see the word as it is spoken might even help kids with spelling. Of course there are misspellings, esp. on PBS kids programming, I’ve noticed. But movie captions tend to be accurate. Sometimes one of our elementary aged kids will say, “I didn’t know that’s how you spelled that word.” (One caution about captioning movies: do keep in mind that captions will also display cuss words.)

But there are more benefits than disadvantages. As parents, we’ve discovered that watching movies with a bunch of kids is much easier with captions. Sometimes kids’ chatter can drown out dialogue, but with the captions, it is an easy thing to just read the words you’ve missed. This makes for more relaxed family TV viewing.

Captions are also nice after the little kids have gone to bed. Being able to read the words on the screen makes it easy to leave the TV volume a little quieter, making it easier for intermittant conversations, and offering less disturbance to sleeping kids in the back bedrooms.

Sometimes our captions get turned off accidentally. But when they do, we’ve gotten so used to them that someone is sure to soon ask to have them turned back on. TV captions– they work for us.

..story of THE CALL I have ever read. (For those of you wondering, ‘the call’ is when an adoptive parent gets the phone call from the agency with information about the child that the family will be adopting.)

Go tell Jamie congrats, OK?

The three year old had been playing with her dolly, so when she came into my room without the doll, I asked her where it was.

“Oh, [12-yr-old sister] is holding her now.”

“What’s she doing with her?” I asked, wondering how the 3 yr old had coaxed her big sis to play with dolls.

“She’s milking her,” explained my little one.

And for a minute I was nicely confused, until the three year old pantomimed feeding a baby a bottle.

If you’re a long time reader, you may remember past posts where I share a picture of a morning’s worth of yard sales finds and you get to guess how much I paid. This time around I’ve decided to give actual prizes. The two people who guess closest to the price that I actually paid for these items will get one-month trial memberships to Netflix.com, a service that my family has had for quite awhile now. We just love it. So check out my picture, give your best, most-educated guess, and I’ll announce the winners on Friday.

This week’s haul of loot included two *large* boxes full of quart and pint canning jars, a couple of 10×13 picture frames, two nice life jackets (one NWT), 1 pair of jeans for my 3 year old, 3 pair of capris for my 5 year old, one pair of spotless new Levi Strauss jeans for me, one striped blouse for me, 1 each jeans, capris, shorts, and skirt for my 10 year old daughter, 6 excellent quality name brand shirts for my 10 and 12 year old daughters, 2 t-shirts for my hubby, and 3 t-shirts and a fleece jacket for my 13 and 16 year old sons. Oh, and the adorable red polka dot mesh bag at the top of the picture. That’s 27 items PLUS a whole mess of canning jars.

So what’s your guess?

Sunday

If only 7% of the world’s Christians adopted 1 orphaned child,
the world’s orphan population would disappear.

On this Mother’s Day,
may your heart be moved to meet the needs of a child.

This afternoon I heard an unusual amount of chatter in the back bedrooms, and upon closer investigation I realized that the noise was coming from at least 4 children congregated in my bathroom. I poked my head into my bedroom and asked them what was going on. My 10 year old daughter, home from Ethiopia since last August, was the first to peek out of my bathroom.

“We’re just pounding ourselves, Mom,” she reassured me.

Which, after a moment of confusion during which I imagined blood and pain, I realized actually it meant they were weighing themselves.

After my tomato post the other day, several of you had garden questions. I can’t remember how much I’ve told y’all about this before, so you may want to skip this if gardening isn’t your thing. I suppose our garden would be small to a farmer, but it is big by most people’s standards. The main garden is about 120 feet by 50 feet. Then there’s a separate melon patch (probably about 18×10), a 30-ft row of strawberries, a 40-ft row of raspberries, 6 grapes, and 6 fruit trees. (Gracious - no wonder something’s always in desperate need of weeding!)

My husband moves the tomato plants from starter packs to yogurt containers because they’ll be stunted if they stay in the starter packs much longer. But around here it can still possibly freeze at night for a couple more weeks. The varieties he’s growing this year are Beefy Boy, Romas, Prudens Purple, Brandywine, yellow pear, and Sungold cherry tomatoes.

He’s also already started cabbages, dill, melons and peppers– all indoors under lights. This year he’s also starting more trees– chestnut trees, hickory, black locust, Kentucky coffee trees, and sweet gum trees. My hubby is a bit of a tree fanatic– he can’t walk past a tree in the park without checking for seed pods. When we moved to this property, there was ONE lone wild rose bush on the entire 3 acres. Now there are at least a hundred. A few huge, many small, but when we remember the look of the place 15 years ago when we built the house it is quite the tranformation.

Since their transplant to the yogurt containers, the tomatoes got moved out from under lights to a big sunny bank of windows in his shop. There they’ll experience colder temperatures and start to harden off, which will make the move to the garden in a couple weeks less of a shock. Out in the garden, each baby tomato will be planted a little deeper than it was in the pot to develop good roots, then be surrounded with a tomato rack and covered with clear sheeting for a week or two, to prevent sunburn. By mid-July they’re usually up to my shoulder, and by early August we’ll hopefully be getting our first tomatoes.

As far as spraying fruit trees, we’ve discovered it is really necessary, esp with apples. We use Sevin, per package recommendations, with a pump-up cannister sprayer with a wand. We spray about 4 times over the summer, once soon after bloom, and about every 4 weeks after that, stopping at least 3 weeks before picking. I don’t love spraying, but the truth is that grocery store apples are loaded with spray. We spray less often than the regular growers do, and don’t get perfect results. About 50% of our apples are ‘perfect’– ie, bug free. about 30% have a small bug hole or two someplace, and the other 20% of our apples are only good for applesauce after some careful trimming. But I am content with the results we get, and am not anxious to use more spray than that.

For those of you interested in starting your own seeds, John recommends The New Seed Starter’s Handbook by Nancy Bubel. Growing your own plants allows you lots more variety and is much more affordable than buying plants already started, especially if you want a good-sized garden.

One thing that really makes this huge garden possible is the help of everyone in the family. About 3-4 days a week we all head out to work in the yard/garden for 30-45 minutes after breakfast. Working together we can get so much more done! Last night 9 of us worked on flowerbeds for 45 minutes. Add that up — that’s almost 7 man-hours of yard work complete in less than an hour. And the truth is, when we all work together, the atmosphere tends to be pretty decent. I call out 15 minute intervals so that people know that the time is ticking away. People chat, sing… and yes, they occasionally whine (but not much, because that earns bonus minutes!) The littlest girls fill sleds with weeds and drag them to the burn pile. And when we are done we can step back and see real improvement.

Anyway, that’s the scoop on the garden for now. I’ll share growing pictures later!

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